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There seem to be so many people who are depressed that we really should take a look at the causes of depression in the first place. The factors that contribute to depression are well-known, and well-researched, but what causes it is not quite understood. New studies have uncovered some of the factors that contribute to the probability of people developing depression.

Stress

Stress takes the first place prize. It’s true that any stressful environment or situation can lead to depression. It can be anything such as social stress, getting a job, relationship difficulties, worrying about money, staying up late, lifestyle out of control, pressures of school and getting good grades. Other events that could cause depression are: death, change of job, moving from one place to another; even the fear of the unknown can cause depression. The list is endless. While these events cannot be avoided, we must come up with an effective stress coping mechanism to be able to thrive even in stressful situations because they are never going to go away. Stressful situations just keep changing.

Drinking and Drugs

People who take drugs and alcohol are more prone to depression. When these substances are used at a young age, they can effect a a person’s brain in negative ways. These substances help make the person feel good temporarily, but in most cases, people become addicted.

Drugs release dopamine in the pleasure center of the brain. For example: delicious food boosts dopamine release by about 50 percent. Sex, on the other hand, doubles this number. However, drugs can increase dopamine release anywhere from four to ten times. This unnatural high almost certainly leads to depression after the high goes away. This substance is the surest way to fry brain circuitry.

Drugs make a person depressed more than it makes him happy. This effect will spiral downward until the person doing drugs will want more and more of the substance to break the cycle of depression that follows each high and so the addiction is born.

Not Enough sleep

Studies show that up to 40 percent of adults do not get the proper amount of sleep per day and among students, up to 71 percent complain of sleep disorders and lack of sleep.

Sleep is essential to a person’s health. During sleep, the body repairs itself and reorganizes thought. Lack of sleep contributes to a lack of coherence in brain waves. This scenario often leads to depression. Sleeping during the day and staying up late also interferes with the body’s natural rhythms. This can lead to a sense of depression.

Here are few ways on how to prevent depression.

Sleep is a vital part of preventing depression. Balance your life with enough rest and exercise everyday. Most people require seven to eight hours of sleep per day.

Keep some regularity in your life. Orgaize your activities so they can come at expected and regular times. If your weekly, daily or monthly routine is set then your body has time to get used to the activities. This will lead to a reduced chance for depression to set in.

Don’t push yourself beyond your limits. Keep stress in check and try to avoid stressors if you can. If this can’t be done, then try to deal with the stressors in a manner that minimizes the damage it causes.

Sunlight and exercise can help the brain to function a higher level. Make time to enjoy the sunlight and try to stay active in the daylight when possible.

Keep away from alcohol and drugs. They may seem attractive, but all they really do is cause havoc in a person’s life.

Make at least one warm meal daily a priority. Good eating habits and good health are important when keeping away from depression.

Have fun every day. Nothing takes the load off of depression like some good old fun time. Social activities such as chatting, joining a support group sports, and other hobbies can do wonders towards healing a stressed out and busy mind.

Depression can be avoided and treated and it can be fun doing so. Follow the above mentioned tips for a brighter and happier disposition each day. You will look and feel better for it!

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Hurt and Negative Thoughts and Feelings

Since many of those who have been hurt by loved ones in subtle ways, there is usually no significant event to trigger that there is an abusive situation occurring.  Feeling hurt, sad, guilty, worthless, hopeless, helpless, or angry becomes many of the core feelings of the victims of this type of hurt.  They many times begin to associate their negative feelings with who they are.  They become bad people, and worthless individuals in their eyes. 

Jane is a hard working executive for a fortune 500 company.  She has won many awards for her achievements at work. She always tries to stay one step ahead of everyone because she knows how much more critically women are judged on their performance than the men.  She also knows how scared and bad she feels all the time.  She is afraid that others will see right through her and see the bad person she really is.  She suspects that everyone knows she was raped as a child and does not know whom to trust.  Jane has a meeting with her boss the other day and was provided some critical feedback concerning her presentation to her staff she supervises.  She was told she is very critical of their performance without acknowledging their positive performance.  Jane thinks she is a bad person and probably does not deserve to have her job.  Jane is being treated for Depression and an anxiety disorder.

This is an example of someone that has suffered a traumatic hurt in her life and views the world and people around her.  She associates her negative feelings with who she is and second guesses her worthiness of a job she has be given awards for demonstrating great competencies.  Many times, victims of hurt do not see the obvious situation they are involved.  They instantly base the situation on how they feel and many times integrate the feeling as part of who they are.  This is important to know for your own life.  What are the bases for your assessment of who you are?  If you are basing this on how you feel, I bet that your assessment is not very accurate.  This type of approach will make you very vulnerable to being victimized or hurt by others.

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Feeling Bad and Wondering Why

You wake up in the morning and wonder why you have an uneasy feeling in your stomach.  You are scared and hide under your covers and hope that people will just go away.  You feel tired and want someone to take care of you. You find that your temper can be tapped easy and have difficulties finding good in others.  You wonder why your mother and father don’t love you. You deal with others each day but cannot figure out what the rules of engagement are with them.  Some days they treat you with respect; other times they talk behind your back.  You have friends, family members, and significant others who never seem to give you what you desire or need.  You make every attempt to gain the love of those you figure should love you back.  You feel very worn and are not enjoying life as you would like.  You find it difficult to talk in front of crowds and have many fears in life.  Does any of these statements sound familiar to you?  Living life can definitely be a challenge for everyone.  It is especially difficult in a society that de-emphasizes morality and virtuous living.  When you add sexual, physical, and emotional hurt to your life, I believe you will begin to lose touch with what is real in life.

How many relationships are you currently involved in which you can say are honest, respectful, and loving.  When you make your assessment of your relationships are you being guided by your thoughts or your feelings?  These are significant areas to consider when you begin to look at what is causing you to feel bad, lonely, empty, tired, irritable, hopeless, helpless, and unhappy.  I believe these feelings are due to the hurts you have encountered by the people you have come in contact and quite possibly have intimate relationships.  This may sound surprising to you and quite unbelievable.  The more obvious hurts in the form of sexual and physical abuse are easier to ascertain as abusive than the more subtle hurts that take the form of put downs, criticism, name calling, and messages suggesting that you should not exist.  When people tell you that their problems in life are a result of your existence, then the message may be interpreted to mean the problem would not exist if you do not exist.  I believe these negative messages are subtle enough to go unnoticed and over time cause much hurt for the receiver of this message.  I will discuss how the subtle messages have contributed to many forms of maladaptive responses by the victims of these negative messages.

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